It's somewhere on my LJ as a private post - I always meant to make it public once it stopped being a work in progress - but now I can't remember where. They weren't progressive points - they were just various options, some of which were about avoiding the wedding and some of which were about making it tolerable. Or just ruining it. I remember one was wearing exactly the same outfit as the bride, and another was bringing a really high profile and distracting guest, such as Alan Rickman.